since i suck at making the first move myself, my advice is advice others have given me. think how hard it is for you to make the first move. now imagine being a guy. a guy has to read signals that never make sense to them. then they need to screw up their courage and figure out a way to ask you without offending you. they are often gunshy by powerful women because we can lay a really good smack down when motivated.
seems sucky yes?
the only advice i was given was to "try and be more open and receptive to advances", also "stop looking, relax, they will come".
good luck honey, i hope however he is appreciates you for the kick ass person you are.
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Date: 2007-06-08 06:24 am (UTC)a guy has to read signals that never make sense to them. then they need to screw up their courage and figure out a way to ask you without offending you. they are often gunshy by powerful women because we can lay a really good smack down when motivated.
seems sucky yes?
the only advice i was given was to "try and be more open and receptive to advances", also "stop looking, relax, they will come".
good luck honey, i hope however he is appreciates you for the kick ass person you are.
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Date: 2007-06-08 06:26 am (UTC)